first year of college is over and i’d say I’ve grown a lot. i know that sex gets you no where with boys. hook ups mean nothing. never fully invest yourself into one person. anyone can hurt you even if they love you. never base happiness off of people. rely mainly on yourself. find a friend to be emotional with. never look at old texts because its may not be true anymore. talk about stuff out loud to people but not too much or they will start to hate you. you can’t rush people into things because if you do you will just lose them. ultimatums in a relationship will rarely go your way. the boy always needs to love the girl more than the girl loves him. never trust a girl who gets along better with guys than girls, or ditches girls to hang with guys, more guy friends than girl friends is always bad news. expect absolutely nothing from people and be pleasantly surprised. this sounds awfully morbid but ah well. had my heart torn out this year by a best friend then put back together by him and now recovering with him by my side. one of the weirder situations of my life but we’ll get through it????